“I'm glad I understand that while language is a gift, listening is a responsibility.” ~ Nikki Giovanni Hi friends!
Last week, in honor of Andrea Gibson, I wrote about “trying softer’ rather than trying harder. I gotta say . . . both my memory, and my fuse, can be VERY short sometimes. Turn out, my previous patterns persist. Those worn out grooves of defense and reactivity? They are SO darned accessible . . . and I’m afraid they sometimes enjoy being on heavy rotation. 😔 And, therein lies the rub. I can fall right back into the pattern of being harsh with myself. That gets me all tightened up, and hardened, and it doesn’t feel good. So instead, I’m trying to remember to simply soften. That’s it. Soften. Soften my breath. Soften my stance. Soften my jaw. Soften my internal critic. Soften. And in this softer place, I notice I am better able to hear. I love the Nikki Giovanni quotation up above. ⬆️ When I soften, I am not only able to speak more clearly, more compassionately, but I am also able to listen more clearly, more compassionately. To my family, my friends, my community, and to myself. While I am new to trying softer, I am delighted to report that listening more compassionately within? It feels similar to the moment when we turn off Little Wing’s engine. Ahhhhhhhhhh. 🥰 Being home for the past seven weeks? It has been wonderful! And, it’s time to pack my bags for the next big Coffee Hunter adventure. This time? Colombia! 🇨🇴 I am SO excited. Come see me before I go! This Saturday at the Saugatuck yacht club. We’ll move, breathe, laugh, and be renewed. 8:30 - 9:30. ALL are welcome. With love and light, m P.S. Mark your calendars!
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